How to Win Friends and Influence People 

Rule 1: Become genuienly interested in other people 
 1)  " Do this and you will be welcome anywhere" 
 2)" You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to to get other people interested in you." 
 3) " Ask questions to other people, questions that they would enjoy answering"

When you influence people you want to make sure you are a good influence to them because you don't want to be a bad influenece to someone and have a bad reputation. You want to make sure you have a good reputation and you are influencing or mentoring the person right becaus eif you don't they'll end up being a bad person or doing bad things in their life which will not be good they'll probably blame you for infulencing them or mentoring in that way and will say that you were a bad mentor. When you make you new friends you want to make sure you are interested because then you won't like how they are or how they act so you need to be interested. When you make new friends you are welcomed anywhere because you are friendly and they will accept you anywhere because you are always making friends and you are nice to people and you treat them with respect and you are outgoing as well.  

Rule 2: Smile
1)" Actions speak louder than words, and a smile says," i like you. You make me happy. I'm glad to see you." 
2)" You don't feel like smiling? Then force yourself to smile." 
3)" It creates happiness in the home, fosters good will in a business, and is the countersign(witness or identification)of friends." 

What this is saying is that no matter what happens you should always smile. What ever you're going through you should always smile because when people see you smile then they start smiling and they can see you are in a good mood and that you're a positive person. Even when you're sad you should always be smiling because it can put you in a good mood. I feel like when a person smiles it puts me in a good mood and it makes me feel happy because i see that the other person is happy and a smile can brighten up my day or anyone else's day. A smile can say so many different things and can tell some one a lot about you, your smile can attract others to the room because they can see it is a happy environment and that it can bring positivity in their life. When you smile even when its not the right time for you to smile in your life you can still feel positive about the situation and make others think the same thing.   

Rule 3: Remember names 
1) " A man's name is to him the sweeter and most important sound of any language"
2) "If you don't remember names, you are headed for trouble." 

What this means is that it is good when you remember someone's name because you never know when you're going to see that person again. For example let's say you meet someone new like their your friends friend and you ask for their name and then later on you bump into them at the mall or at the store or at school and then you see them and you forgot their names but they remember yours so now you're 

Rule 4: Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
 1)" If you aspire to be a good conversationalist, be an attentive listener."
 2) " Remember that the man you are talking to is a hundred times more interested in himself and in his wants and his problems than he is in you and your problems." 

What this means is that when you start a conversation you need to be a good listener because you never know when they can ask you questions about the conversation and you won't know what to say or give an answer because you weren't paying attention 


Rule 5: Talk in terms of the other man's interest.
"The royal road to a man's heart is to talk to him about the things he treasures most." 
 What this means is that when you talk to some one you should talk to them about what they want to achieve in life what are their goals and what they care about the most and maybe you guys will have things in common. When you ask them what they care about the most you can learn something new everyday and be surprised on what they tell you. Maybe they can tell you that what they care about the most is their dog and you can be confused on think why would they care a lot about their dog? but then you ask and then they tell you why and then you can see why they care a lot about their dog then they can ask you what you care about the most or what do you treasure the most then you tell them something and they can be shocked as well. When you ask them on what they treasure they can see that you really care about them so they will start talking to you even more. 

Rule 6 : Make the other person feel important--and do it sincerely. 
" The desire to be important is the deepest urge in human nature."( John Dewey)" helping people feel important and appreciated works magic."

This means that if you make the other person feel important do it out of the good from your heart and not just because you want them to feel special or because someone told you to make that person feel special. When you make someone feel special you can make them feel happy or you can make them smile. You can put other people in a goood mood when you make the other person feel special. The person you make feel special can be in a good mood and feel good about themselves for the whole day, they might be having a really bad day and they tell you all about it and then you decide to make them feel special because you start thinking that they could really use someone at the moment so you start comforting them and you start giving them advice and start talking to them to make them feel better. When you make someone feel special you put them in a good mood and you can even put yourself in a good mood. You make the person feel appreciated and it makes the person feel good about themselves. Many people don't care about how other people feel so they don't make others feel appreciated and it makes others feel bad about themselves because they feel like their not wanted in their group or in the area. When people dont appreciate other people it makes other people feel bad because they think they might not be good enough for those people or they might think they might not fit in the group. 

Final Reflection: Write an overall final reflection in this post regarding the "six ways to make people like you". Include your deepest thoughts and feelings. Write what you commit to do to apply the six rules.

What i think i can do to apply "the six ways to make people like you" is to apply these six rules in different situations in your life. Like if you were to use the first rule you would apply it when you move to a new area or go to a new place. You can meet new people and find what they are interested in than for you to wait until they find something interesting about you that will take longer to find because some people don't really pay attention to the interesting things you do or say. When you find something interesting about a person you can become good friends. Also you would be able to apply rule #2 when a friend,family member, or a neighbor is having a bad day and you don't like seeing them like that so you try making them smile and try to make them happy. A smile can mean so many different things. When a person smiles it can make another person happy or it can make another person's day. These six rules mean it can help you become a better person throughout your life and can bring you many positive things and positive people in your life that will motivate you to do better.
  

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Free lance post:

Im looking foward to getting my physical done through out the week because im excited to try out for softball again. i am nervous to try out for softball again just becasue i feel like im not ready to be put into varsity which i probably won't make the team with just one year of expierence. In order for me to be put in varsity i need to be practing everyday and joing season leagues so i cna get better and get the hang of the game and how to play. I'm also excited to try out because my friends are trying and most of my friends keep telling me taht i should try out and keep playing softball but i always say no i don't think so because im really self concious because i know that i have trouble playing and understanding the game but they motivate me to keep on trying and that's what im doing i'm going to try out again and keep on practicing so i can get better and better and stop being self consious of my self. I am also going to try to maintain my grades good becasue so far i have really good grades and before i woldn't really have good grades so this year im going to try to maintain my grades like that and if they go down i will bring them up even if i have to do double the work, extra credit, stay for tutoring and etc.

" BLACK LIVES MATTER" 
This is important because they are getting treated poorly and end up getting killed for no reason. Some cops don't have a heart and just kill them instead of them finding out what actually happened they just kill them and that isn't right we all have freedom of speech and the police

Free lance Blog:

Last weekened was a good weekened because i went to my friends sweet 16. I was excited to go to her party because she is an old friend that i met in middle school and up to this day we are really close friends so i was really excited to see her because i really don't see her and my other friend from middlie school that often so i was excited to see both of them that day. The day came and i finally saw both of them i had such a good time seeing both of them and celebrating her 16 with both of them. I'm happy for this week/ weekened because i will plan things out with my friends so we ca go out and hang out and it is also my friends birthday on friday and i hope i can see her that day, i'm excited for the weekened because its my cousins 15 and i can't wait to go and celebreate it with my family that i don't see often. I'm hoping this weekened will be good like last weekened although last weekened wasn't that good because one of my really close friends left to mexico and i really missed him but i am happy now that he came back already so i get to see him somewhat this week. 

" The Six Attitudes of High Achievers" 

--John R. Noe-- 

 

                                                  1. Make no small plans : 

 What this means is that don't make small plans when you can make big plans. In the world you have to be open minded and out going. You have to make things big and unique don't be those basic people that do the same thing as others. You need to be out going so people can know who you are and can have a unique way in remembering who you are. When you plan soemthing you have to go all out no matter what it is that your planning, if its aparty you need to think outside the box and out do it you need plan.

2. Do What They Fear : What this is saying is that you need to like overcome your fear. When you overcome your fear you become a better person. If you over come your fear it helps you do more scary or risky things in your life. You can somehow be able to succed when you over come your fear also you can help people overcome their fears if they have any. You can even ovecome other people's fear. If you like want to get back at someone you usually want to get back at them with their fear so you can see them scared and see them suffer.   
 3. Are willing to prepare :
For this attitude you have to set your mind to prepare yourself. To prepare yourself you need to set a mind a goal and make sure you achieve it little by little everday, you need to write it down in a journal on your phone or something that you look at daily so you can remeber to achieve it daily.in order for you to have a good successful future you have to prepare yourself in order for that to happen. When you're prepared you are ready for anything because you'll know what to do in the situation. If and when you prepare yourself in education it will pay off because you'll have what you didn't have when you were a little kid or when you have your own family they will be grateful and they'll have what they want because y ou prepared yourself for your future and you won't have to go through embarassments or sacrifices for you to give them what they want becasue you'll have a good job with a good pay because you made an effort and a struggle.
4. Are willing to risk failure : 
This attitude means that even though you know you're going to fail you'll still do it. Like for example if you have a test and you know you're going to fail but you'll still take it because you'll get some points and still fail but you already knew you were going fail but you still took the risk and see if you maybe would've had the chance to pass it. When you're willing to risk failure it is not always bad it can be good sometimes because when you fail then you can see what you did wrong and what you can do better for next time that you try. When you risk failure isn't bad if you do it once in while but when you risk failure like everyday then that is bad because you're doing it everyday and it is becoming a bad habit in your life. Therefore you need to start making changes in your life because it is not benefitting you in any way. When you start failing everday you can even end up getting sick like you can enter the depression stage which is bad for you health because 

5. Are teachable :
When you are teachable you can succeed because you can teach other how to be successful or how to achieve their goals. Once you teach this person or maybe even a community they will say good things about you and they can see that you can be a good mentor for other people. People will see the potential you have as a person and may ask you to be a mentor for school or their community, some can ask you if you are able to mentor their kids or someone they know that is in need of someone helping them with their life or goals. Mentoring can even help you in a way because when you mentor someone you tell them things or try new things with them. Like for example when i "mentor" my neighbors i tell him and her things like "if you ever need help in your school work ask for help ask the teachers for help don't give up because then when you get older you'll regret not asking for help because i know that when i was your age i wouldn't ask for help becasue i was really shy, it deosn't matter if you are or not ask for help." i also tell my neighbors that are in middle school or a freshman in high school to alwasy do their work and not to slack off because at the end you'll regret it because if you slack off and to get your act together then you'll be sasd that you won't be able to graduate at the end. 

6. Have Heart : 

 When you have a heart it means you care about others. having a heart is a good thing because it shows you have a good attitude because if something happened to your friend,family or loved ones you would care because you have a heart and you will go and see if everything is okay with them. Having a good heart can be helpful for example at your job like if you're a doctor and someone is sick, performing a surgery on someone, or having to give bad news to family memebers that they just lost a loved can be emotional seeing the family grief over their loved one. Having a heart at that time can be helpful because when you say things to that family or any family of any patient in general they can say that you really meant " i'm sorry for your lose i did everything i could to save him/her." and they will thank you for trying and doing your job unlike some doctors that don't really care and will just tell you like they don't care but i mean i get that they can't feel anything becasue its not their family member or loved one but they should at leaset have a heart because that family is going through a really tough time and maybe they should think that what if that was them in that family's place  like they would be hurt they would sart crying and saying all kinds of mean things to the doctor that didn't really try to help the patient. Having a good heart isn't always good because when people see that you have a good heart they will take advantage of you and do things to you. 

Final Reflection: 
The 6 attitude of high achievers is a good thing in life because it can help you shape your life and make you do good things. To make this part of your daily life you can do little things that can relate to the 6 attitude of high achievers. For example you can be willing to prepare later on for your life you can do small things or take small steps for you to prepare in your life like going to school seeing what you want to be doing in the future where do you want to be in the future basically seeing your future amd planning out what you want your future to be like.Also you can make part of your life from the 6 attitudes of higher achievers is having a heart. When you have a heart it can help you in so many different ways because people can see that you care about them so they'll care about you and treat you nice. When you teach someone something